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Code of Conduct

Carmel Rams Youth Football and Cheer will not tolerate verbal abuse of its volunteer coaches from any Fan, Parent or Spectator.

This is American Youth Football, not the pros. Fans, as well as the players and coaches, are expected to abide by a code of conduct at all American Youth Football Events.

While 99% of the adults in the program will abide by this code without being told, this code is being published to protect the children and volunteers (which includes all coaches and board members) from the 1%.


Fans will abide by a Code of Conduct which includes the provisions which follow. If any of these rules are broken, Carmel Rams Youth Football and Cheer shall have the authority to impose a penalty.

 Fans shall:
1. Not criticize the players/cheerleaders or coaches in front of the other spectators in the stands, but will reserve constructive criticism for later, in private.
2. Accept decisions of the game officials (including referees and coaches) on the field as being fair and that they were called to the best ability of said officials. 

3. Not criticize an opposing team, its players, coaches, or fans by word of mouth or by gesture.

4. Refrain from using physical or verbal abuse or profane language at any time at the game, practice field, or other AYF functions.

5. Abstain from being under the influence of or in possession of and/or drinking alcoholic beverages and the possession or use of any illegal substance on both the game and practice fields. 

6. Not be allowed on the sidelines during a game.

7. Not interfere/interrupt the coaching staff before, during or after games or at practice.

8. Not express complaints about coaches in stands or to coaches in front of or around the children (e.g. right after a game or practice).

Any parent or fan who violates the code of conduct risks the further participation of the child in the program.

1.  The procedure is as follows: Any fan who violates the code of conduct or becomes a nuisance will be asked to leave by the head coach and can be suspended from all team activities. 

2. If the fan fails to leave upon request, the child may be suspended from further participation in team activities by the head coach. The head coach, along with the executive board, will decide if the duration of the suspension is to be longer than one to four weeks, or if the child will be dropped from the program. That decision will depend on the attitude of the parents.

3. Any parent or fan who violates the code of conduct risks the future participation of his/her children in the program. Depending on the severity of the incident, the board of directors may decide to ban future participation in the program for up to three years.

4. CONDUCT OF ALL PLAYERS - PARENTS All players are guaranteed 6 plays in each Jamboree, Regular Season or Playoff game. Everything beyond that must be earned in the opinion of the coaching staff whose decisions are final.

Athletes' Code I will:
-Emphasize the ideals of sportsmanship, ethical conduct and fair play.
-Show courtesy to my opponents and officials.
-Recognize athletic contests are serious educational endeavors. Give complete allegiance to my coaches who are the instructional authority for my team.
-Discourage fans, fellow players and parents from undercutting my coaches' authority. I will not: Use profanity or talk "trash" before, during or after any game.
-Not use drugs, alcohol, or tobacco.
-Not criticize my teammates, and act in any way that may incite spectators.

Parents' Code I will:
-Support my child's team/squad and teach the value of commitment to the team/squad, emphasizing the ideals of sportsmanship, ethical conduct and fair play.
-Help my child and American Youth Football make athletic contests a positive educational experience.
-Show courtesy to opponents and officials.
-Direct constructive criticism of my child's athletic program, to the athletic director or association officials, and work toward a positive result for all concerned.

I will not:
-Criticize officials, direct abuse or profane language toward them, or otherwise subvert their authority.
-Undermine, in work or deed, the authority of the coach or administration.
-Intrude onto the field, stand on the sideline, or yell from the bleachers at or to the coaches, referees or administration.

Grievance Procedure

Grievance Procedure:

It is our policy that all parents have the opportunity to discuss any concerns that they have in regards to Cheer, Football, or any issue related with CRYFaC.  If there is an issue that needs to be addressed, you should speak to the Coach first.  If a resolution is not reached, please contact the appropriate director. (Cheer or Football)

In the unfortunate event an issue arises that needs to be addressed by the Board, you may email Nicole Parchen CRYFaC Secretary at [email protected].  Please state your concern, and leave a contact number where you can be reached.  All inquiries will be handled and remain confidential by our Grievance Committee made up of Nicole Parchen CRYFaC Secretary, and Matt Farbman CRYFaC Treasurer.  They will notify the appropriate members of the Carmel Rams Youth Sports Inc. Board of Directors (CRYSI).

This policy aligns with the Grievance Procedure that is outlined in our Bylaws.  We WILL always listen, and address your concerns to the best of our abilities. 

Carmel Rams Youth Football and Cheer

P.O. Box 21 
Carmel, New York 10512
Email : [email protected]
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